When I Couldn't Keep All Three Properties

12 AUGUST 2026

A few months after winning my first two PAG-IBIG foreclosed properties, I joined another bidding.

This time, I won three.

I still remember visiting each property before I placed my bids.

One was just a 10-minute walk from SM. I could already imagine the possibilities. If I didn't end up living there, I knew it could easily be rented out or used for a small business someday.

The second property was a corner lot in a growing area surrounded by factories. I thought it would be a good place for young families or workers who wanted to live close to their jobs.

The third one was in my hometown. It was more than 400 square meters, just a few meters from the national highway. Jollibee, 7-Eleven, and the malls were only a short drive away.

I liked all three.

When the text messages from PAG-IBIG arrived saying I had won the bids, I was so excited.

I couldn't believe it.

I completed all the requirements, paid the processing fees, and the ₱1,000 reservation fee for each property.

By the time everything was paid, it came to around ₱48,000.

I remember looking at the total and thinking, I didn't expect it to cost this much.

Later, I learned that the fees and insurance depend on the property's contract value.

The higher the value, the higher the upfront cost.

Then I waited.

About six weeks later, I received a call from PAG-IBIG.

The officer explained that based on my financial documents, I couldn't keep all three properties.

I only qualified for one more housing loan.

I asked if I could transfer my approved loan from the property near the factories to the one in my hometown instead.

Thankfully, they approved my request.

I was grateful.

But it also meant I had to let go of the other two properties.

Especially the one near SM.

Deep inside, I already knew this could happen.

I already had two existing PAG-IBIG housing loans for my Bria properties. My financial capacity had its limits.

Still, hearing it from the officer was different.

On the drive home, I kept thinking about that property near SM.

Not because it was the biggest.

Not because it was the most expensive.

But because I had already imagined what it could become.

That was the day I realized something I had never really thought about before.

Earning enough and proving you earn enough are two different things.

As freelancers, virtual assistants, online workers, or self-employed professionals, we may know we can earn enough to pay for something.

But when you apply for a loan, what matters is what you can prove on paper.

That experience stayed with me.

For the first time, I stopped asking myself, How can I buy the next property?

Instead, I started asking, How can I increase my documented income?

It was a small shift in thinking.

But it changed the direction I was heading.

Looking back, I don't regret losing those two properties.

Of course, I still wonder what they would be worth today.

But more than anything, they gave me grit.

They made me realize that I needed to increase my documented income - not just enough to pay the bills, but enough to give me more choices in the future.

That became my new goal.

Not to buy another property right away.

Not to prove anything to anyone.

But to build the kind of financial capacity that would allow me to say "yes" when the next opportunity comes.

Because I never want to hear, "You only qualify for one," again.

Losing those two properties didn't stop me.

It simply showed me what I needed to work on next.

Coffee with Cy

If you’re a solo mom, remember this:

You don’t have to solve everything today. Just prepare a little better than you did yesterday.

That’s one of the reasons I created North Star-to share practical lessons on rebuilding finances, creating additional income streams, and helping solo moms feel a little more prepared for whatever life brings.